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Each and every parent wants their child to grow up being a self confident adult and a good adult as well as better human being that the parents actually are. To help our child become a responsible adult we as parents must ensure that we behave like responsible people. We have to adjust psychologically and emotionally well to set an example for them.

Try to communicate with your child. There should be a strong connection between the child and you, and then your child is automatically going to obey the family rules. The first and foremost thing is to make your child understand that nobody is perfect in this world. As long as you live, you can always learn. Teach your child to say sorry. Teach them to admit when they are at fault and to admit when they have a weakness nad in doing so they can be a better person.

Make sure that even you, as a parent, can say sorry for your mistakes. You should teach them to be honest and to never lie. Honesty means telling the truth. It means that you should not mislead others for your own benefit. If you want to preach this, you must set an example your own self.

Do not abuse, swear or physically abuse your child. They are going to grow up assuming this to be the normal way of life. Set a good example for your child and pick your words wisely. You should always allow your kids to spend time with other family members like the grandparents, uncles, aunts and so on. This is because they all play the part of role models and leave a valuable impression on the child. Through grandparents the child also comes to know about the roots, family values and so on.

Even if the grandparents pass away you as a parent should always talk about your relative. With your teenage kid, you need to make certain rules. Do not put the computer with internet access in the child’s room so you can always keep a watch on their surfing actions. Always make sure to find out where it is that they are going to. Although your child might not like this in the beginning you have to do this to ensure the good of your child, after all you are the parent and you will know better.

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Stage fright is actually a very common thing for most people. Now there are various ways by which you can overcome this. If you do not then it will act as a barrier preventing you from becoming successful. These following tips will help you overcome it.

The very first thing you need to do is find out exactly what it is that you are scared about. There can thousands of reasons for feeling scared. Some people are scared about rejection from the audience, some are simply scared that other people are going to see them act; some are scared of failing and so on.

If the audience is your problem then you have to try and avoid any type of direct eye contact with them. If you have an audience which is quite large then you can simply loo into the wall which is present at the back. That way people think you are looking at them, but then you actually aren’t.

Now if criticism is your enemy then the best thing you can do is block out all the criticism. Try and think that you don’t even have an audience and perform with all the conviction you have. If you have a lot of conviction then the audience will believe you and they will stop criticizing you.

Now there is another thing which you have to remember. Even the greatest performers have messed up on stage at some point in their lives. This does not mean that they are really bad. So if you mess up don’t get depressed. Everyone makes mistakes; after all we all are humans.

Another thing you need to learn to do is make sure that any mistake that you make is covered up. No matter what you do on stage even if you are a musician, make sure you don’t let people notice that you have made a mistake. Simply try and cover it up and move on. Do not stop playing; simply play something which is different to act as a cover up.

Also do not look very nervous, this way even if you make a mistake people will understand. So even if you mess up do it confidently, this way people wont even notice when this happens. If you try and follow these tips you will be able to get over your stage fright and you will be able to succeed.

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The 32 year old Clueless star, Brittany Murphy had died on Sunday morning due to a cardiac arrest. Her husband had called up 911 early Sunday morning but then when the actress was brought to the Cedars- Sinai Medical center which is located in Los Angels, she was pronounced to be “dead upon arrival”.

The representative of the family made a statement saying, “in this time of sadness, the family thanks you for your love and support. It is their wish that you respect their privacy.” Also her former flame Ashton Kutcher twittered after hearing the deeply saddening news, saying, “2day the world lost a little piece of sunshine. My deepest condolences go out 2 Brittany’s family, her husband and her amazing mother, Sharon.”

He also added to twitter later on, “see you on the other side, kid”. This chirpy little actress had started with her career at only nine years, which was on a Broadway show called Les Miserables. After this she had many short lived roles on television before she finally got her breakthrough role in Clueless as Tai in 1995.

After this her major role was in the movie called 8 mile which was opposite Eminem. Now apart from movies she also gained quite a bit of fame when she was dating Ashton Kutcher and this was when they were filming their movie Just Married. Although this relationship didn’t last, Murphy still kept her dating life very active.

She had also been engaged quite a number of times. The first one was to her agent called Jeff Kwatinetz and then the production assistant of the “Little Black Book”, Joe Macaluso and then she finally landed up marrying her screen writer Simon Monjack. The wedding had taken place in 2007.

Now this “sweet” (that’s what almost every one of her co stars have used to describe her) actress was loved by everyone. According to Clueless co star, Alicia Silverstone, “I’m so saddened to hear this news. I loved working with Brittany. She was so talented, so warm and so sweet. I always felt connected to her and we shared a very special experience in our lives together. I feel love in my heart for her and hope she is at peace.” Eric Roberts, her co star from Spun says, “Another sad, sad loss. She was a sweet, smart girl and a real actress.”

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