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Each and every parent wants their child to grow up being a self confident adult and a good adult as well as better human being that the parents actually are. To help our child become a responsible adult we as parents must ensure that we behave like responsible people. We have to adjust psychologically and emotionally well to set an example for them.

Try to communicate with your child. There should be a strong connection between the child and you, and then your child is automatically going to obey the family rules. The first and foremost thing is to make your child understand that nobody is perfect in this world. As long as you live, you can always learn. Teach your child to say sorry. Teach them to admit when they are at fault and to admit when they have a weakness nad in doing so they can be a better person.

Make sure that even you, as a parent, can say sorry for your mistakes. You should teach them to be honest and to never lie. Honesty means telling the truth. It means that you should not mislead others for your own benefit. If you want to preach this, you must set an example your own self.

Do not abuse, swear or physically abuse your child. They are going to grow up assuming this to be the normal way of life. Set a good example for your child and pick your words wisely. You should always allow your kids to spend time with other family members like the grandparents, uncles, aunts and so on. This is because they all play the part of role models and leave a valuable impression on the child. Through grandparents the child also comes to know about the roots, family values and so on.

Even if the grandparents pass away you as a parent should always talk about your relative. With your teenage kid, you need to make certain rules. Do not put the computer with internet access in the child’s room so you can always keep a watch on their surfing actions. Always make sure to find out where it is that they are going to. Although your child might not like this in the beginning you have to do this to ensure the good of your child, after all you are the parent and you will know better.